{"id":30446,"date":"2025-04-10T18:56:42","date_gmt":"2025-04-10T18:56:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/margretjons.com\/?p=30446"},"modified":"2026-05-09T16:47:50","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T16:47:50","slug":"how-to-change-anyone-even-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/how-to-change-anyone-even-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Change Anyone, Even Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve been wanting to start an online business, but you keep putting it off.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/homebusinessideas.com\/images\/changeyourself.jpg\" alt=\"Change Yourself\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You want to build a new website, write a new book, create a new product, etc., but you can\u2019t seem to do it.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe you just want to exercise more or eat better, so you have the energy to run your business.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the change is that you want to make, you might be having a tough time making that change \u2018stick.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Or perhaps you want to help someone else to make a change.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve just started reading, \u201cInstant Influence: How to Get Anyone to Do Anything,\u201d by Michael Pantalon, and I want to share something with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s his formula for getting anyone to change.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of <i>telling<\/i> them why they might want to change, you <i>ask<\/i> them why they might want to change, using these six steps:<\/p>\n<p><b>Step 1:<\/b> Why might you change? (Or if the person is you, ask yourself, \u201cWhy might I change?\u201d)<\/p>\n<p><b>Step 2:<\/b> How ready are you to change \u2013 on a scale from 1 to 10, where 1 means \u201cnot ready at all\u201d and 10 means, \u201ctotally ready?\u201d<\/p>\n<p><b>Step 3:<\/b> Why didn\u2019t you pick a lower number? (Or if the \u2018influencee\u2019 picked 1, either ask the second question again, this time about a smaller step toward change, or ask, \u201cWhat would it take for that 1 to turn into a 2?\u201d)<\/p>\n<p><b>Step 4:<\/b> Imagine you\u2019ve changed. What would the positive outcomes be?<\/p>\n<p><b>Step 5<\/b>: Why are those outcomes important to you?<\/p>\n<p><b>Step 6:<\/b> What\u2019s the next step, if any?<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s it. I invite you to try this one yourself first, before you try it on someone else.<\/p>\n<p>See what happens. I know when I used it to make myself give up a certain food that I was practically addicted to, it worked like a charm.<\/p>\n<p>Next I\u2019m going to try it on bigger things and see what happens.<\/p>\n<p>According to the reviews on Amazon, this simple process has literally changed lives, so maybe it will change yours.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve been wanting to start an online business, but you keep putting it off. You&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1585,"featured_media":30447,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2897,2926],"tags":[3052,3203,868,873],"class_list":["post-30446","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affiliate-marketing","category-online-marketing","tag-affiliaate-marketing","tag-change-youself","tag-online-business","tag-online-marketing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30446","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1585"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30446"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30446\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1002149,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30446\/revisions\/1002149"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30447"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30446"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30446"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30446"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}