{"id":29546,"date":"2025-01-03T18:58:13","date_gmt":"2025-01-03T18:58:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/margretjons.com\/?p=29546"},"modified":"2026-05-09T16:47:56","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T16:47:56","slug":"fear-is-the-main-ingredient-of-all-failure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/fear-is-the-main-ingredient-of-all-failure\/","title":{"rendered":"FEAR Is The Main Ingredient Of All Failure"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is an interesting analogy of fear that I like and that is:<\/p>\n<p><strong>F<\/strong> \u2013 False<br \/>\n<strong>E<\/strong> \u2013 Evidence<br \/>\n<strong>A<\/strong> &#8211; Appearing<br \/>\n<strong>R<\/strong> &#8211; Real<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/homebusinessideas.com\/images\/fearoffailure.jpg\" alt=\"FEAR Is The Main Ingredient Of All Failure\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You see, most Internet Marketers imagine that they\u2019re doing everything they can to succeed and yet often ask \u2013 \u201cWhy then am I not further along?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhere are my millions?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you feel this way too, then you\u2019re probably a victim of \u2018fear\u2019 \u2013 of false evidence appearing real.<\/p>\n<p>Fear stops you from doing many things:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Taking risks<br \/>\n&#8211; Going for it NOW (not tomorrow)<br \/>\n&#8211; Worrying about investments\/spending money<br \/>\n&#8211; Overriding your natural abilities<br \/>\n&#8211; Fear of not making enough money<br \/>\n&#8211; Fear of what people will think of you and your \u2018virtual\u2019 job<br \/>\n&#8211; Thinking it\u2019s all a scam<br \/>\n&#8211; Worrying you are doing it \u2018wrong\u2019<br \/>\n&#8211; Having too many ideas as a back-up and, therefore, diluting your power in too many ventures<br \/>\n&#8211; Starting and not finishing<\/p>\n<p>The list is endless. But it\u2019s not real. It may feel real, but it isn\u2019t. It is a future-based thought projection, and it is causing you to suffer and to, ultimately, hold you back.<\/p>\n<p>You see, if you constantly picture it going wrong, worry about the future, keep changing your mind or venture and procrastinating \u2013 it\u2019s all self-protection so that if it goes bottom up \u2013 you think you won\u2019t feel so bad.<\/p>\n<p>I am here to tell you if you want to get over this for good, you must pick an adventure online \u2013 hyper-focus on seeing it through to the end, forget about the \u2018how,\u2019 remember why you started, and disregard any thoughts of pain or failure that \u2018might\u2019 occur.<\/p>\n<p>Why? Well, the difference between you and someone really successful in your field isn\u2019t the system they are using. <strong><u>It is the mindset<\/u><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>I guarantee you if it was the system, then everyone who bought the system thereafter would be rich. No, it is how you feel about it and what you are willing to do with it. Most of that process of success is inside of your head.<\/p>\n<p>How can you make any system or process work for you? Don\u2019t keep changing the idea \u2013 change you.<\/p>\n<p>Simply put \u2013 stop being afraid of things that haven\u2019t happened or that may happen or that have happened. Focus now on one or two good projects and STICK with it\/them. See it\/them through. Face the obstacles and tell your fear that you can do it and will do it no matter what. That is the only secret.<\/p>\n<p>Why do we not like this word \u2018failure\u2019? Because the possibility of it (of letting ourselves down or others) causes us PAIN.<\/p>\n<p>We are all afraid of pain and want to move away from it. That is how procrastination happens \u2013 you want to put the pain off for another time. It could be the pain of hard work, of talking to people if you are shy, of seeing yourself or of failing in your goals. But it is all nonsense caused by thought.<\/p>\n<p>Pain is overrated. Why? Because again, FEAR is the main ingredient of all pain.<\/p>\n<p><strong><u>After that, it&#8217;s just the physical feeling, which can be managed<\/u><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s right. You can liken it to pulling out a loose tooth with a pair of pliers. \u2028Sounds barbaric, scary&#8230; however, how much do we dramatize the potential of pain in that scenario?<\/p>\n<p>This is the same as fearing the future of your finances or overall success online.<\/p>\n<p>But remember this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Walking to get the pliers isn&#8217;t painful, lifting them isn&#8217;t painful, holding the tooth isn&#8217;t painful; wiggling the pliers and pulling &#8211; now that&#8217;s painful (the actual discomfort of doing it) &#8211; but for what, five seconds? Five seconds of pain.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s over. Sure beats a week of panicking about the dentist.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a strange analogy, but most of us live our whole lives making a whole day, week, or month out of pain when if we just lived in the moment without fear, it\u2019s often just a five-second event.<\/p>\n<p><em>If we just pick an idea, go for it and face fear \u2013 and just see it through!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Fear of failure is the element that keeps you down, with no hope of success on a massive scale. But there is no such thing as failure! Some of the greatest \u2018failures,\u2019 or lessons, as I call them, developed some of the most incredible inventions to date.<\/p>\n<p>Failure is an exposure to what works and what doesn\u2019t, and one can only reach success or failure when getting out of his\/her safe or comfort zone. So if you are failing, you\u2019re doing better than most&#8230; because while they\u2019re sitting around, you have already gotten up and started making it happen!<\/p>\n<p>Benjamin Franklin said:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cBy failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And Thomas Edison said the following:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2028\u2028\u201cMany of life&#8217;s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>He added &#8211; <em>\u201cEverything comes to him who hustles while he waits.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cOur greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And my favorite &#8211; <em>\u201cI have not failed. I&#8217;ve just found 10,000 ways that won&#8217;t work.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Like Edison and like any great out there now&#8230; there is only one key difference in their approach \u2013 they are not afraid to see their work to the end.<\/p>\n<p>See it to the end, and you too will have success.<\/p>\n<p>Do not be afraid anymore. Get to work, take massive and consistent action toward your dreams, and build your dream life NOW.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is an interesting analogy of fear that I like and that is: F \u2013&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1585,"featured_media":29547,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2897,2919,2922],"tags":[3275,3276,3467],"class_list":["post-29546","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affiliate-marketing","category-internet-marketing","category-marketing","tag-fear-is-the-main-ingredient-of-all-failure","tag-fear-of-failure","tag-internet-marketers"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29546","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1585"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29546"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29546\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1002172,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29546\/revisions\/1002172"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29546"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29546"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traffic-tap.com\/lifebeyondoffice.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29546"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}